Monday, 24 June 2013

This is Reality!



“Every time you watch a reality series, a book commits suicide” Ha! 

Ok I know this is a serious matter but I am gladly  guilty…in fact someone should lock me up and swallow the keys .Name it I have watched it…The real housewives ,basket ballers  wives, Russian dolls, Keeping up with the Kardashians…Mob wives even the real husbands..Braxton Family values……trust me the list is much more staggering. I have even exhausted the latest and every time I go to my local movie vender, I can see the frustration in his face because he wasn’t fast enough to update the seasons!

At this point I have just remembered that yesterday I was watching Married to the Medicine; Doctors wives...Yes its out and it full of Ndrama and Vendio! Am sure some of ya’ll be wondering why I put myself through such meaningless drama and yes too much adrenaline rush, because truth be told, it  gets so emotionally involving trying to watch  these Crazy women’s lives and there are crazy men in there too.

OK so here’s the deal, when you look at all these women, you kinda get hope. You realize that you are not doing that bad, there are worse drama queens...for those who’ve been labeled that. There are seriously vain people out there ‘WE ARE NOT ALONE’ …and life is not perfect even in the far away lands. Seriously this girls goof a lot even in matters of life and death, you are not the only one who acts a fool ...... hurray! So gal…That flash of embarrassment and sense of despair because of acting before thinking is common to all, you are not the only blonde! :)
 
There’s an upside to this …these girls are fighters, dreamers and majority already in their forties. Nene Leeks…..if you don’t know her then honey you don’t know what laughter you are missing in your life. She truly has arrived and telling the story of how she started living her dream at forty after casting for the real house wives of Atlanta (My favourito) . So girls out there, you could be down in a ditch somewhere wondering how you got there and how you going to pull yourself out or in the sky, flying, living your dream and twirling your way through life...it doesn’t matter, just by the fact that you are WOMAN, your life is bound to be colorful, drama filled and an emotional roller-coaster!!! But that also means you have the Ability to reinvent yourself and life in the most exciting, colorful and dramatic way.

Luv
Ish

6 comments:

  1. mmmmhhh what do i say,,
    its a very gud way to look at things, movies are always educative in another kind of eye, thou many woman tend to mix what they see with thea persona life.....
    you have to remember that what you see is not truely true but a fiction of the reality. you av forgotten to ask yourself one question "what made the women got thea in the first place??"
    the picture pottried thea is of which class?? plus if you look at thea focus it completely wrong,, you have to remember the bible says "look not nor consider the things of this world for thea all vanity" King solomon in the book of proverbs says "have gotten everything ma soul desires done everything ma heart loves but i find it all vanity"
    A POINT TO PONDER; what is correctly wrong en out of place in those movies yu have just mentioned??

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  2. true observation ...
    maybe I could just elaborate abit,the reality programs are not really movies but cameras follow the cast as they live their day to day life.So i looked at it from the perspective that even though they would try to exaggerate their lives abit on camera,their flaws still show ..in a big way.so my message when you goof in life its important to note that others have goofed b4 you and how they choose to move on from their is their choice.

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  3. Ofcos ndrama na vindio are a reflection of a society and what we seee sometimes gives us direction but i will haste to add that sometimes they give us an elusions and thoughts and thus Hollywood differs with Riverwood in that.

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  4. yes Sam..thats true and I think worse is Nollywood!
    Thanks for the support.

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